Fierce Empath

Serious Mojo to get your Juju back


My next few blog posts are going to be about necessary and beneficent energy management tools for Empaths.

There are some very good external tools to help us on our Empath journey but they can't help much if we are not rocking our own energy management. The most important skills we can gain as Empaths are internal ones - as these will always be with us and are absolutely necessary for our true empowerment.

So we will start with the most essential aspects of Empath energy management, starting with:


I cannot overemphasize how important this is.  Regular reclaiming and reintegration of your energy is basically like a mini, conscious, regular soul retrieval. With this level of awareness of what we are doing with our energy, we are also much less likely to experience unconscious soul loss!

Our energy, or pieces of ourselves, goes out when we interact with others, think of others, worry about others. As Empaths we have an Openness that is the home of or our Empath "superpowers" - but this same Openness can be our undoing! In other words, our Openness- if not managed skillfully- can create huge energy drains for us.

Not taking care of this can and often does turn into serious health problems, when it manifests in the physical. Things not managed usually do have to show up in 3D, as our soul or higher self's way of whacking us with a 2 X 4 to pay attention (believe me, our souls tried to give more subtle nudges and did not resort to the 2 X 4 except out of desperation!).

One very central feature of the Empath's life and spiritual journey is learning how to be skillful with our superpowers!

We need to bring back or reclaim our energy on the daily (and for those of us who help others as a profession, we may need to do this often in a day). You can create your own ritual to do this.  My Guides have taught me good ways to do this, that have shifted over time with my own growth and changing. The Guides have encouraged many of my clients to do this. The process should include:

*Recalling all of our energies- intending that even stuff you aren't remembering is included
*Resetting our energy field

One aspect of this that we will go into in more detail about later is "boundaries."

Many Empaths have trouble with understanding and appreciating the need for boundaries.  Actually "boundaries" are a rudimentary aspect of projecting our energy powerfully and beneficially. Empaths who don't understand the need for healthy boundaries are predictably the ones whining about being victims of other people. The energy drain we experience with others is real but the only one who can do anything about it is us. The common denominator is always US.

Nobody can become skillful for us.  Nobody can take advantage of us when we are superskillful at managing our energy. There is a level of accountability that must be attained to be a skillful Empath, and we all have to start at the beginning: Energy Management 101.

Realizing that our energy is our own and claiming and reclaiming it is the first step to being a skillful healthy boundary setter.  Otherwise, we will stay stuck in a draining dramarama of resentment and blaming others for our own lack of skillfulness.

Another need-to-understand aspect of the Oneness issue is that Empaths tend to naturally send out our energy without awareness.  It's like casting our net, and bringing back other people's junk along with whatever treasures we might have come across. We wonder why our emotions aren't matching our own situation, or why we feel so tired and drained. Because of the Empath Openness and the tendency we have to take on other people's emotional debris, we have to constantly ask ourselves: "Is this mine?" Healthy boundaries are not complete until we thoughtfully create preferences/boundaries for our own energetic behavior.

We can learn to be more discerning and mindful about how and why and when we 'cast our energetic net', but until we do and even when we do, we still need to know how to clear, reclaim and reintegrate our own pure energy, in order to be whole.

Reclaiming and reintegrating our own energy is a fundamental aspect of empowerment. It is self responsibility. No matter how skillful we get this will always be a part of our work as an individuated being. We chose to be humans living in 3D. Even if we are part of the divine wholeness (we definitely are), we also chose to experience life as an individual. For that reason we need to be committed to self-awareness and thoughtful self care.  Delightfully, mindful and loving self care is inspiring and contagious!

Our empowerment creates a morphic field for others to empower themselves too. So working to liberate and empower ourselves is service-to-others based, not selfish!

Ultimately, our empowerment as Empaths is the truest service we can offer to others. 

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I offer Empaths (and anyone who is ready to take a leap) multiple pathways of support and healing:

FIERCE EMPATH SIGNATURE SESSION: An 80 minute combination of:

*appreciative inquiry intended to help you gain clearer, stronger connection to your own inner wisdom and knowing

*intuitive reading and healing

This usually means working together (with the assistance of high frequency service-to-others spirit guides) to identify and clear/heal blockages that are sabotaging your most radiant empowerment. These impediments could be non-beneficial belief programs you carry from childhood or even what we call past lives, outdated vows and agreements keeping you stuck in patterns that have nothing to do with your present situation or consciousness, emotional cords and bindings, DNA repair, ancestral timeline healing, removing implants, retrieving lost aspects of your authentic wholeness (soul retrieval type work) etc. Typically, with the help of loving guides, we clear and heal these blockages, replacing them with healthier, more empowered energies and integrating conscious programs you help create. This creates a fresh, stronger, healthier, clearer foundation to move forward from.

EMPATH MOJO MASTERY: A three month tailored-to-you program which includes 80 minute sessions every other week and intuitively guided work together via email on the in-between weeks.  This fiercely focused attention on awareness, healing and skill building can create huge leaps in growth, clarity and empowerment!

EMAIL READINGS: One Question and Three Question Email Readings, delivered within 3 days or less by request. Intuitive guidance/intel for burning questions you may have.

INTUITIVE READINGS: Straight up intuitive readings - no coaching- 50 minutes or 80 minutes. (30 minute quickies available for regular clients)

STRAIGHT COACHING/APPRECIATIVE INQUIRY (no overt woowoo): Though I confess there will be intuitive woo running in the background, I can do strong and highly beneficial coaching sessions to help you gracefully navigate hurdles on your life journey. 50 minutes or 80 minutes. (30 minute quickies available for regular clients).

The Guides that I work with are genuinely invested in our expansion and growth.  For this reason even the intuitive readings will not be like many "psychic readings" that give info like yes/no to a specific question. This work is about you and your growth, so the Guides will want to help you explore and understand the issue. As an example, one person who was referred to me did ask "Is my boyfriend cheating on me?" The Guides basically asked her to look at why she was with someone she needed to ask that question about and how and why it was important to her. They proceeded to ask her a series of questions challenging her to dive into her own choices and decisions.

For Signature Sessions and Empath Mojo Mastery: I am excited to work with people who are seriously ready to uplevel, shift, change and grow. The client must be open, committed, ready to listen - in order to use the information for your own betterment. The best results of working together are based in understanding, connection and trust. I am fiercely honest, fiercely supportive, and fiercely committed to my clients being fiercely empowered! The team created by you as a committed client, my focus and commitment, and the Guides' loving wisdom is serious fiercely supportive mojo to help you get your juju back!

You can book a free call to ask questions and so we can 'see' if we are a good fit. Or just book a regular session or reading and let's get to it!